My story
How it began
For a long time, before my career as a specialist relationship coach. I was in your shoes.
Bouncing around, relationship to relationship, looking for that special connection.
But lacking confidence and happiness within myself.
I wasn’t getting anywhere.
Feeling constantly anxious, as if I wasn’t good enough for a happy and healthy relationship.
I would self sabotage from a deep down feeling that I didn’t deserve this, feeling incredibly lonely even whilst in a relationship.
Then I met someone who changed my life.
My eyes had been opened to the truth
They showed me that if I wasn’t happy with myself, how could I ever be happy with anyone else.
After countless relationships, arguments and dates, I realised I had been going the wrong way the entire time.
My life changed
This pushed me in the right direction. It led me to gain the self confidence and self-belief I needed.
I discovered a whole new me that I didn’t know existed.
You wouldn’t have recognised me anymore.
From being introverted and closed off individual, to being an extremely optimistic person. Having the confidence of a King and know that I fully deserve this.
The support I had from a trained professional helped me in ways I didn’t know possible.
I was ready to try again.
And before I even had my next date, I had a huge amount of hope.
I knew this was going to work, it felt right.
I deserved this.
New Beginnings
From having such a life changing experience of working with a trained professional, I started training to become one myself.
I had been in a very dark place and realised that If I can do it, absolutely anyone can.
Now I am the one providing the support people need.
And I am the happiest and most confident I’ve ever been with my long term partner.
We all need a little guidance towards being the best version of ourselves
And now?
Now, I live in Nottingham with my wife and Barney – he’s a 13 year old black Labrador who still thinks he’s a puppy! He can be quite cheeky, but is adorable. I love to be out in the garden, walking Barney or doing DIY (I’m not that great at it though-but I’ll give most things a go)
I also love practicing Tai Chi, Qigong and Wing Chun. They’re all brilliant for switching off from the stresses of the day and keeping me focused.
I am a Certified Specialist Coach (a senior member of ACCPH) I also have qualifications in person centred counselling, a level 6 Diploma in Life coaching, and a diploma from the Association for Psychological therapies. This goes along with a successful track record in therapeutic services spanning over 23 years.
Having worked with so many different types of people to help them build stronger, happier relationships. From this I have a deep understanding of how your own unique circumstances and challenges can shape your own journey. I’m here to listen to you and help you out of that dark place that I too lived with for so long.
To get started and begin the life you truly deserve, just contact me on the form below. Can’t wait to meet you.
